Over the past several years, a well-worn stack of paperbacks has found a permanent home on my desk. These beloved volumes, filled with my scribbles and reflections, stay close to my computer as trusted companions throughout the week. In the lingering glow of the New Year, I’m thrilled to share this compilation of titles as valuable resources to inspire new patterns, attitudes, and habits in our ongoing journeys of growth.

Tao Te Ching (I prefer Stephen Mitchell’s translation) is a profound guide to inner growth, sharing the wisdom of the ancient Taoist sage Lao Tzu. In its verses, we discover the art of non-action, embracing simplicity, and aligning with the flow of the Tao. This timeless text offers transformative insights, guiding us toward a deeper understanding of ourselves and the harmonious path of personal growth.


Owning Your Own Shadow: Understanding the Dark Side of the Psyche, by Robert A. Johnson, invites us on a transformative journey into the depths of our unconscious. With compassionate insights, Johnson explores the necessity of embracing our hidden aspects, unlocking the potential for inner growth. This book has served me as a faithful guide to integrating the shadows within, fostering self-awareness, and ultimately achieving a more authentic and balanced life.


Falling Upward: A Spirituality for the Two Halves of Life, by Richard Rohr, takes us on a soulful exploration of the second half of life, emphasizing the importance of embracing challenges and transitions as opportunities for profound inner growth. Father Richard’s wisdom guides us toward a spiritual maturity that transcends conventional notions, encouraging a deeper understanding of our true selves and the transformative journey of falling upward. This book invites us to navigate life’s complexities with grace and wisdom. And here’s a hot take: Father Richard has penned numerous remarkable books, but in my opinion, this one stands out as his all-time best work.


Unattended Sorrow: Recovering from Loss and Reviving the Heart by Stephen Levine gently guides us through the transformative terrain of grief, offering profound insights on navigating loss and sorrow as opportunities for deep inner growth. Levine’s compassionate wisdom invites us to attend to our pain, unraveling the layers of unexpressed sorrow, and ultimately finding healing through a journey of self-discovery. This book serves as a companion for those seeking to integrate grief into the fabric of their lives, fostering a more resilient and authentic inner self.


Fear: Essentially Wisdom for Getting Through the Storm, by Thích Nhất Hạnh, is a transformative exploration of understanding and transforming fear into a catalyst for inner growth. Hanh’s gentle teachings guide us to embrace fear with mindfulness, compassion, and resilience, illuminating the path to personal transformation and healing. This book offers profound insights on how to cultivate a courageous and open-hearted approach to life’s challenges.


No Mud, No Lotus: The Art of Transforming Suffering, by Thích Nhất Hạnh, illuminates the transformative power of embracing life’s challenges as essential elements for inner growth. Hanh’s teachings beautifully depict how suffering, like mud, can nourish the lotus of our awakening. This book guides us to cultivate mindfulness, finding beauty and resilience in the midst of difficulties, and ultimately blooming into the fullness of our authentic selves.